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Settling In

Apart from telling us that she's feeling like a prisoner...
 Bebe is actually settling into the routine of life in care. We know she is safe & on the whole quite happy. One of the good things for us is being able to walk away if she starts getting agitated during our visits - knowing we can leave & let someone else deal with her difficult behaviour is liberating!
The staff are doing a great job, although Bebe is probably one of their most difficult clients... 
Hard to believe when you see her so happy, but when the camera comes out - she loves to put on a show!

She has been in care for a month now & we are still appreciating every moment we have to ourselves. Being able to do everyday stuff like going for walks, cooking, watching a film, visiting friends, turning up for work on time & sleeping is all just wonderful...


And one of our favourite pastimes has to be crawling out of bed & walking down to the beach before breakfast. 
On Wednesday, we were down there at low tide. The beach opens out & we were able to enjoy some time exploring the little coves we don't get into very often, but of course the video is still about life with/without Bebe... 
It's going to be some time before we feel life is normal again, but at least we can appreciate what we have & we really do - every day.


Kay & Sime
xx

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